The hymn, “What A Friend We Have in Jesus” tells us two times in each of its three stanzas to take our prayers to the Lord, everything to God in prayer. So many times that is not our first thought. A difficulty comes our way, instead of praying, we try to solve things ourselves. What is your first thought when you face crisis?
The Lord gave me a very special friend 25 years ago. Her name, Elsie Melton. We met at a harvest party for our church adult small group. We had various questions to ask those present to get to know them better. One of the questions was how many countries have you visited. It seems that many of the group hadn’t been out of the US, even though they lived 30 miles from the Canadian border. Elsie, being from Texas and married to at that time a customs officer had been in many countries. I was from California, married and ministered in Latin America with my husband. We clicked that night and the friendship began. We were only two years apart in age. The more we chatted, the more we found our lives had similarities.
I don’t know whose idea it was way back then to pray together, if I had to guess, I would say it was Elsie’s idea. Elsie loved to pray. We started meeting sometimes weekly, sometimes twice a month and we would pray hours for our families and ministries. Elsie became heavily involved with the Stonecroft ministry. Elsie started many Bible Studies and planned many luncheons and dinners where after a delicious meal and special music, a speaker gave a short non-threatening talk with the clear plan of salvation.
Over those 25 years, we still called each other. Sometimes we had quick calls in-between our scheduled times for urgent prayer requests for our children our spouses. You don’t realize how very important that is and how precious those hours spent in prayer are until you can’t call anymore. June 26, God decided that it was Elsie’s time to be with Him instead of down here on earth. It was very unexpected! She was visiting her daughter in Oklahoma where the 13th grandchild was born. She spent the evening calling everyone with the happy news. It was that night that she slipped into eternity with her Heavenly Father whom she served so faithfully.
Why am I sharing this with you? First, I wanted to share with you the life of this woman of prayer. As her children shared during the funeral last Monday, “I would call mom with a problem or a decision I had to make and she would say, ‘let’s pray about it.”‘ She took anything and everything to God in prayer.
If you don’t have someone you can call anytime if the day or night and say, I need to pray, I suggest you pray about who can be that person for you. It is the best feeling knowing that someone will really pray instead of just saying they will. The Bible teaches us to pray alone, with the brethren, in silent, out loud, lying down, kneeling, etc. God covers it ALL. We are to pray without ceasing. Thank Him. You know those verses.
Let me just close with the words from that famous hymn. The author wrote the words for one person, his mother, when she was facing deep sorrow. Written for one person, but loved and is an encouragement ro millions.
What A Friend We Have in Jesus
1) What a Friend we have in Jesus, All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry, Everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry, Everything to God in prayer!
2) Have we trials and temptations? Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged; Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness; Take it to the Lord in prayer.
3) Are we weak and heavy laden, Cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our Refuge; Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do thy friends despise, forsake thee? Take it to the Lord in prayer.
In His arms He’ll take and shield thee; Thou wilt find a solace there.

Elsie, Richard and grandson